Goals, Resolutions & Emotional Whiplash

As I look into this new year and finalize my resolutions, I keep coming back to the statement, “I resolve.”

People often discuss whether they make resolutions or set goals. This can pull on our emotions as we optimistically look forward and at the same time, feel trepidation about not being able to achieve what we have set forth for ourselves.

I set goals AND I make resolutions. Why? Because they are not the same thing.

The Oxford dictionary defines goal as the object of a person’s ambition or effort; an aim or desired result. Whereas a resolution is defined as a firm decision to do or not to do something.

A goal is something external to go after, to get.  

When I set goals it is because I want to achieve something. For me, I have a vision of the direction I want to go and things to accomplish that will move me toward my vision. I set goals and objectives to achieve, which will systematically move me forward.

A resolution is a decision, a mindset, a heart attitude.

Along with that same vision for my life, I have things within myself to change, improve, or be removed. I identify those with resolutions.

A resolution is made within the essence of who we are. When I say, “I resolve,” I am saying, “I will allow nothing to keep me from making this change.” These internal resolutions will also move me forward and help me ultimately fulfill the vision for my life.

Beginnings.

The first book of the Bible is Genesis. Genesis itself is defined as the origin or mode of formation of something. The Bible begins with these words, “In the beginning, God … ”

January 1st.

TODAY is the genesis of this year, the formation of something new. TODAY, from the beginning of this year, GOD.

Beginning the new year TODAY reminds me that each of these 365 days matter. Whatever I choose to do with them, each day and each decision contains eternal value. Whatever I do, wherever I go, and no matter the circumstances each day brings, I want everything in my life to be for and about the One, True and Living God.

I posted on our Facebook wall yesterday (@VineSweetConnection) that 2016 was quite a ride for our family. I can still feel the emotional whiplash! Yet, here we are, STANDING and READY for 2017!

TODAY it is 2017 and my hope for us all as we embark on this year is:

We invite God’s magnificent presence to be made manifest in our lives, daily! The power of the Holy Spirit empowers us to carry out the purpose for which we were created! The love of Jesus Christ fills our hearts and compels us to draw others to Him.  May we experience the nearness of God in our lives EVERY day. May Holy Spirit’s presence be the bounce in our step, the twinkle in our eyes, and the sparkle of joy in our heart!

In all this goal setting and resolve, the vision cast for my life is a result of prayer and seeking after God’s purposes for my life. As you set your goals or make your resolutions or like me, you do both, prayerfully consider this:  Each day contains eternal value. What will I do with it?

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leah@vinesweet.org

I help overwhelmed people confront and collapse problems of the past and collect right information about themselves so they can connect to life and relationships in a brand new way! With her joyful, enthusiastic attitude, Leah has an exceptional ability to extract significant lessons learned from life-experiences and turn them into teaching points we can all relate to and help connect us more closely to Jesus Christ. In addition to speaking, Leah is a blogger and author with two works to her name, Faith Lessons: Experiencing the Miracles (Insight, 2008) and Success Simplified (Insight, 2011). She is currently completing a book project of her signature program, The VineSweet Connection: 5 Steps to a Fruitful Life, scheduled for publication later this year. Additionally, her radio broadcast, The VineSweet Connection, has aired on the Kingdom Keys Radio Network. A Licensed Pastor with the Church of the Nazarene, Leah serves as the Worship Arts Pastor at First Church of the Nazarene in Amarillo, Texas. Taking ministry outside the walls of the church building and serving the community, Leah has been invited numerous times to lead opening prayer at the City of Amarillo Council Meetings, led and served on community task forces, several non profit boards, professional associations, and ministry boards. Most recently, Leah was appointed Chaplain of the Amarillo Association of REALTORS and served as a member of their Board of Directors. She also served as President of the Board of Directors of Worth the Wait. Currently Leah serves on the Board of Directors of the Amarillo Education Foundation. Leah and husband, Mike, an accomplished musician, have served together in worship ministry more than thirty years. They have traveled in ministry and performed at many events, as well as having performed on national television. The Forts have been married more than 35 years and make their home in Amarillo, Texas. They have a daughter and son-in-law, Sydney and Chase Clark, a son and daughter-in-law, Lane and Neeley Fort, and six grandchildren.

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